“In real life, how can you tell if a man truly loves me?”
This is probably a question many people want to know the answer to. They say men think with their lower body, so sometimes, some may say a man is just lusting after your body, and that statement is not entirely wrong.
When a man truly likes a woman, he indeed wants to possess and have her.
Men are said to think with their lower body, but a man who truly loves you will be responsible for you, and everything he does is actually considering you.
Emily and her boyfriend have been in a relationship for three years. After graduating from college, they struggled together in the same city, living in a small rental house, commuting to work together.
Life was tough for them right after college, and they had little financial ability. Despite the pressure, her boyfriend never let her suffer. Whenever there was something delicious, he would think of her first. Even if he suffered, he never made her suffer. Emily is very grateful for her boyfriend’s actions.
They have been through ups and downs together, and their relationship has become strong. One day, Emily suddenly discovered she was pregnant. She was very panicked at the time, not knowing what to do next. But when her boyfriend found out, he promptly proposed to her.
She will never forget what her boyfriend said to her at that time: “Don’t worry, I will take responsibility for you.”
And now, he has also kept his promise to her.
In real life, a man who truly loves you will show responsibility and commitment to you, not make excuses or brush you off with various reasons.
When a man wants to sleep with you and is willing to give you these three things, it is actually a sign of his true feelings.
His Wallet
It is said that a man’s heart is where his money is, and that is not wrong.
You can’t measure a man’s love for you by money, but a man who doesn’t love you will definitely be reluctant to spend money on you.
Men can be selfish too. They won’t spend time and effort on someone they don’t like, let alone spend money on them. When a man is willing to hand over his salary, give you financial control, it shows his trust and reliance on you.
He is willing to give you these things without reservation, hoping to give you a sense of security. Such a man is truly worth relying on.
In today’s world, material possessions are crucial for everyone. If a man is willing to entrust them to you, it shows how important you are to him.
Money is important, but compared to you, you are even more important.
Letting you handle the finances also represents a man’s love for you. Only a man who truly wants to be with you for a lifetime will be willing to entrust his financial power to you because he hopes to bring you peace of mind and a beautiful future.
His Phone
In today’s world, everyone’s phone holds a lot of information, which can sometimes lead to arguments between couples.
If a man is willing to openly hand over his phone to you, it shows he has nothing to hide from you. His goal is to make you feel secure and provide you with enough peace of mind.
Sukhomlinsky once said, “True love not only requires love but also mutual understanding of each other’s inner world.”
In real life, sweet words from a man are important, but sometimes a man’s actions can better prove his love for you.
A man who truly loves you won’t just talk, he will do everything to love you and give you the best life.
A man’s phone often hides many secrets, but if a man is willing to voluntarily hand over his phone to you, even let you look through it, it shows his sincerity and purity towards you.
In a relationship, loyalty is crucial. When a man puts all his thoughts on you, it is undoubtedly true love.
A man who loves you will prove it through actions, while a man who doesn’t love you will only deceive you with words.
I also hope all women in love can be wiser, find a man who truly loves them, and hold onto their happiness.
Engagement Ring
A ring represents a man’s promise to a woman. Only when a man plans to have a woman in his future life, will he give her this promise.
Often, a woman’s sense of security comes from a man’s loyalty and love for her. When a man kneels down to propose to you, it shows his love for you.
Although a ring is just a symbol, such a man is gentle and romantic because they know how to love you in a way you like.
Many men in relationships are selfish and find ceremonial things troublesome, so they willingly skip them.
Sometimes, although girls may not say it out loud, they can feel quite disappointed. A man who truly loves you will consider every aspect of your life, and the ceremonial proposal is to leave you with beautiful memories, making such a man more worth entrusting.
In real life, men may think with their lower body, which is not entirely wrong, but a man who truly loves you not only wants to possess you but also wants to protect and care for you.
Men have a strong possessive nature. When they truly love a woman, they want to completely own her. From a man’s details, we can feel whether he truly loves you.
If a man is willing to proactively give you these three things, it shows he wants to hold your hand and grow old with you.
Love is pure, and emotions in a relationship are subtle. In today’s open era, true love is especially rare and precious. Good love can be encountered but not sought. If you encounter it, please cherish it and do not miss it.