Someone once asked me, “How can I tell if a man truly loves me?”
When I heard this question, I didn’t directly answer. I said, “Love doesn’t have a universal standard, but if a man really loves you, his actions will speak louder than his words.”
A man who truly loves you may not say many sweet words, but he will show his love through actions. They know that love is shown, not just spoken. A man who loves you only needs to say sweet words once because he knows you understand his heart. Making too many promises that can’t be kept diminishes their value.
A man who loves you will do these three things, don’t doubt it.
Speak from the heart to you
When we were young, we were carefree. But as we grow older, we become more reserved, carrying more in our hearts. When a man starts to open up to you without reservation, it shows that he truly cares for you.
There’s a saying: “Smooth talk is flirtation, hesitation is love.” When a man truly loves you, he is actually very vulnerable. When a man is willing to open up to you, it proves his love for you.
Being honest with each other is crucial in a relationship. If there’s too much hiding and secrecy, both parties will end up feeling more and more exhausted.
Actions speak louder than words
Sweet words are nice to hear, but actions speak louder. Only a few can talk the talk and walk the walk. Someone who truly loves you will act with sincerity, while someone who just flatters you with words is not reliable.
Love requires dedication. Words spoken and actions taken will become memories. Leaving each other with beautiful memories is what matters.
Keeping promises is not just a commitment but also a responsibility. Only by taking a relationship seriously can one find more happiness.
In love, there’s not much logic. Love is love, and when a man truly loves you, he will be willing to give his all for you. A man who loves you will not just talk but also act on his promises.
A man who can follow through on his words is worth relying on for a lifetime. Being with such a man will bring true happiness and a sense of security.
No more ambiguity with the opposite sex
We understand the concept of opposite attraction, but true feelings can only be for one person. If you’re not ready, don’t rush to confess your love to a girl because once you say “I love you,” you must commit wholeheartedly.
When a man constantly considers your feelings, keeps you in his heart, and protects you, it proves his true love for you.
True love is possessive, unable to think of anyone else. If a man can still have feelings for someone else, then such love is not worth having.
A heart can only hold one person. Some ask at what point in a relationship one should get married, and the answer is: “When you no longer have wandering eyes for others.”
In our lifetime, we will meet many people, but only a few will truly captivate us. Because many we merely like, but it’s not enough to call it love. When you like someone, you hope they change for you, but when you love someone, you’re willing to change for them. Such love is what brings true happiness.
To test if a man loves you, just see what he does for you. If someone talks more than they act, we shouldn’t take their words to heart. Because someone who truly loves you will prove it through actions, not just words.