What is the most important thing in marriage? Everyone may have their own answer to this question, but I think that loyalty is essential in marriage because it’s full of temptations, and if you can’t be loyal to each other, it will ultimately harm both parties.
Wang Yong and his wife have been married for eight years. When they first got married, they were very poor and didn’t even have a wedding banquet. Despite their difficult financial situation, his wife still chose to marry him.
After getting married, they started a small business, and their living conditions gradually improved. However, their relationship underwent significant changes because of work-related issues. Wang Yong needed to entertain clients frequently, which made his wife unhappy and even resentful of his late-night returns.
Before marriage, his wife was gentle and kind, but after marriage, she became like a shrew in Wang Yong’s eyes. This made him want to escape her even more.
In the end, Wang Yong chose to betray his wife due to a momentary infatuation. However, this ultimately led to their divorce.
After the divorce, Wang Yong’s life was not happy. He lost his assets and his mistress left him. He was left with nothing, and even his parents scolded him.
After the divorce, Wang Yong felt extremely regretful and realized that he needed to take responsibility for his actions. He felt that this was a punishment from heaven.
Many people make mistakes in marriage, and if you lose the one who truly loves you because of a momentary lapse, it’s a loss that can’t be made up for.
Infatuation is Not Love
Many men feel trapped after marriage and want to escape, thinking that their relationship with their wife has lost its emotional connection.
However, this thinking is completely wrong. Emotional connections do have an expiration date, but true love is about the long haul. Infatuation is not love; when you think someone loves you better than your wife, it’s because they’re just participating in your eating, drinking, and having fun, but not in your daily life.
For a man, only by learning to refuse temptation can he truly appreciate the purity of love. If you fall in love due to infatuation, your relationship won’t last long, because love that comes quickly will also leave quickly.
In this world, what tempts you can also destroy you, so I hope everyone can be more cautious when facing emotions.
Don’t hurt the one who loves you because of a momentary lapse.
Marriage Requires Loyalty
What does marriage mean to you?
Everyone may have different answers to this question, but I think that for each of us, loyalty is the most important thing in marriage.
If you don’t understand loyalty, your relationship will ultimately be affected.
In this world, genuine sincerity is hard to find, so loyalty is even more precious.
For anyone, loyalty is essential because if you want your love to be happy and sweet, you need to follow this bottom line.
Everyone Must Take Responsibility for Their Actions
Emotions are not a game, and since you’ve chosen to enter the marriage hall, you need to learn to cherish it. We’re all adults, so we can distinguish right from wrong.
If you knowingly commit a mistake, that’s being unfaithful to your partner. As adults, everyone needs to take responsibility for their actions. If you don’t understand responsibility, you’ll quickly lose happiness.
Perhaps we often envy others’ families, but I think our happiness is in our own hands. When you truly understand responsibility, you’ll truly understand the meaning of emotions.
Yang Chiang once said, “True love is not about changing others, but growing together.”
So, I hope everyone can be sincere in every emotional encounter and not waste each other’s time.
Many people make mistakes in marriage, but some mistakes are not worth forgiving. Everyone in marriage should have their own bottom line, and if you hurt the one who loves you because of a momentary lapse, it’s a loss that can’t be made up for.
Since you’re an adult, everyone needs to learn to take responsibility for their actions. If you make a mistake, you’ll ultimately need to use your lifetime to make amends.
The most basic thing in marriage is loyalty. If you can’t even do that, how can you expect a lifelong relationship?