“What does it look like when a man truly cares about you?” A friend asked me.
She said she had a pursuer who was trying to impress her, but she wasn’t interested at first. However, as she got to know him better, she realized he had a good character and various qualities. Yet, she was cautious because his family background was better than hers. She was afraid he might just be playing with emotions as a wealthy person or second-generation rich.
Sometimes she even thought he might be a player, so she hesitated to accept his pursuit, fearing getting hurt.
People say women are selfish, but men are practical too. In real life, men separate liking and loving clearly. A man who loves you will want you to change for him, but a man who truly loves you will change for you.
For example, when you like a flower, you might pick it. But when you love a flower, you water it. That’s the difference between liking and loving.
Love is deeper and more passionate than liking. Only a man who truly cares about you will love you unreservedly.
Regardless of the age, men crave love. But as time passes, they have different thoughts at each stage when facing love.
If a middle-aged man truly cares about you, he will spare no effort to give you these three things. Believe it.
His sincere words
Men have their own worries and exhaustion from life and career pressures. They long for someone who truly understands them as there are very few people in the world they can confide in.
Facing family, friends, and life pressures, men sometimes have to put on a smile and hide their inner pain.
But if a man truly cares about you, he will share his thoughts with you in order for you to understand him better and show that he wants a bright future with you.
When a man is willing to speak his heart to you, it means he has let down all his defenses.
When a man shares his life with you, it shows he wants more possibilities with you. Being truthful with you also signifies trust. Only a man who truly cares about you can do this.
Providing for you materially
Although love cannot be measured by money, material support can stabilize love. A man who spends money on you may not necessarily love you, but a man who doesn’t spend on you definitely doesn’t love you enough.
When a man is willing to provide for you, it means he wants to give you a better life.
They say women are materialistic, but truly capable men never see women as materialistic. Money can’t buy love, but it can deepen it. Economic foundation determines the superstructure. Most conflicts and problems in the world are caused by money.
With money, life gains confidence. With material security, the relationship becomes more stable and smooth.
Love needs nurturing and accumulation to have a promising future.
Someone who truly loves you will provide you with better material conditions because they don’t want you to suffer. Talking about money doesn’t hurt feelings. To test if a man truly cares about you, discussing the most realistic issues with him is key.
Love involves not only romance but also practical matters like daily necessities. This is the most realistic problem we need to face.
If a man shows impatience when money is mentioned, he definitely doesn’t love you.
A man who can provide for your material needs can give you more security in life.
Accommodating and tolerating you
“No matter how good or bad you are, there will always be someone who loves you, and someone who doesn’t.”
In real life, no one is perfect.
A man who truly loves you will understand and tolerate you, even with your imperfections. He is willing to give you the best care.
Everyone has their own temper, but a man who truly loves you won’t lose his temper with you. For a woman, the best gift from a man is a lifetime of accommodation and love. Marrying a good husband is a woman’s greatest luck in life.
Rusi once said, “The longevity of marriage depends on two hearts, not just bodies.”
In a relationship, men seek respect and understanding, while women desire love and care.
A man’s love is often shown in details and can make a woman feel it more.
A man who unconditionally accommodates you proves that he truly cares about you.
In the early stages of a relationship, a man may be very caring, but few can persevere after marriage. We shouldn’t force love, but we must take responsibility for marriage.
A man who truly cares about you will accommodate and protect you.
Middle-aged men have experienced more in society and know better how to nurture a relationship.
They are more cautious when it comes to love and marriage. It’s not easy to make a middle-aged man fall for you because they know how to control and be cautious.
If a middle-aged man is willing to spare no effort to give you these three things, it means he truly cares about you. If you meet such a man, cherish it and embrace happiness.