For a woman, what does confidence mean? Different people may have different answers to this question.
But I believe that confidence is essential for a woman in society. Only when a woman faces life, work, and relationships with unlimited confidence can she harvest more happiness.
A confident woman often relies on these three things.
A Stable Career
What is work for? Different people have different answers to this question.
Some may say work is for making money, while others may say it’s for pursuing ideals. Both are important, but I lean towards the former.
In the book “Human Worth,” there is a saying: “Essentially, people work to live, this truth remains unchanged.”
In real life, a woman having her own career is to lead a better life, to strive for what she loves.
Indeed, work is for making money. Having a stable career gives you the confidence in life.
Relying on others for happiness is a lack of self-respect.
A career is a trump card in life for women. Women with careers receive more respect from men.
If you rely all your happiness on a man, you will end up undervalued.
While a man may support you for a while, it’s unlikely to be forever.
So, take sweet words from men lightly, no need to take them seriously.
Even the best co-pilot is not as good as holding your own steering wheel. Only when a woman has her own career can she truly approach her own happiness.
Often, we work with ideals, but first, solving basic needs allows us to pursue dreams.
Buying things you like without hesitation and affording luxury are a woman’s abilities.
Such women live transparently and gain more happiness.
Understanding Parents
Leo Tolstoy once said: “Happy families are all alike; every unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.”
The impact of the original family on a person is significant. A reader once shared a story about her family, saying:
“My parents divorced when I was young, they argued every day. I saw my mom cry alone in her room every day.”
Although young, I knew everything. After the divorce, I lived with my dad, who never let me see my mom due to his hatred towards her.
I had to obey my dad, even though seeing other parents taking their kids to the park made me feel lost.
I often thought how nice it would be if my parents hadn’t divorced.
I never met my mother due to various reasons when I was young, my dad never let me answer her calls.
Growing up, I became more reclusive. Maybe because I knew too much, I couldn’t enjoy with peers as I knew many things, making me unable to be truly happy.
I often longed for parental care, especially after facing work pressure. However, I had to deal with everything on my own.
As I grow older, I feel lonelier, not because of the lack of friends, but because I can’t confide even in those closest to me. After hearing her story, I deeply resonated.
The damage caused by the original family to a child is hard to erase.
Some can heal from their childhood, while others spend a lifetime healing.
The original family leaves indelible scars on a person. Without a happy and complete family, it’s a lifelong regret and loss for a person.
Especially for girls, they need parental care. With a father’s support and a mother’s patient guidance, they can go further in life.
The absence of love can create obstacles in one’s life journey.
For a woman, a happy family is their everlasting pillar and confidence. Having a happy family is true completeness.
Self-Healing Ability
In our daily lives, everyone carries burdens, and no one’s life is smooth sailing. Those who face difficulties and setbacks can only succeed by learning to heal themselves.
Behind every glamorous facade, lie hardships you can’t endure.
For a woman, life is even more challenging. If life’s challenges and setbacks break you, then no matter how much you experience, it’s futile.
For the future, don’t be lost or worried. Stay calm and focus on the present.
Facing work, life, and emotions, we must learn to adjust ourselves. Pain becomes a crucial experience in our lives, so it shouldn’t be wasted.
No matter who or what we encounter, we should persevere, solve problems, and clear the path of life.
Life doesn’t treat you delicately because you’re a girl. I hope every woman can be her own heroine, receiving love and care.
A woman’s confidence stems from various aspects of life, but a truly confident woman cannot do without these three things.
The world is ever-changing, and many things require our understanding and resolution. I hope every woman can live a splendid life, possess her confidence, break through challenges, and move forward courageously.