A man’s love for you will be evident in your feelings.
If you love the right person, you’ll feel like a princess for life; if you love the wrong person, you’ll end up feeling miserable.
Linda has been married to her husband for exactly 30 years. This year, due to the pandemic, her husband lost his job. So, the couple decided to find work in their hometown.
After returning home, Linda’s husband, who couldn’t find a job, became extremely irritable. He either smashed things at home or verbally abused Linda to vent his stress.
Over time, he stopped looking for work altogether and started gambling with their meager savings every day, dreaming of getting rich through it.
Initially, Linda tried to let him relax, but she ended up shouldering the family’s burden alone and taking up odd jobs.
One day, when Linda returned home from work, she saw her rarely seen husband asking her for money, with their house in shambles behind him.
At that moment, Linda felt utterly exhausted.
“After 30 years of marriage, with grown-up children, my marriage is in ruins. I really want a divorce.”
No one enjoys being a foolish victim. A man who truly loves you won’t selfishly dump his emotions and stress on you, making you bear his grievances and pain. Only weak men are so self-centered that they can’t fulfill their responsibilities to their family and love their wives.
In many people’s eyes, fathers are synonymous with “taking care of the family” and “spoiling their wives.”
At home, Dad does household chores, cooks, cleans, and takes care of the children without complaint. When he goes to work, he presents himself as a strong man.
Sometimes, if Mom is upset after an argument, Dad humbly apologizes, saying, “Okay, sweetheart, I was wrong, please don’t be angry.”
Occasionally, Dad forgets it’s Valentine’s Day and rushes to buy flowers on his way home after seeing everyone posting gifts online.
Someone once told my Dad, “You’re like a slave to your wife.”
Dad shook his head and said, “No, she suffered a lot when she was with me before. Now I just want to spoil her.”
A man who loves you will willingly bear some hardships rather than see you suffer. Hu Ke once shared a story about her father-in-law in the show “Wife’s Romantic Travel.” Despite his explosive temper outside, he was incredibly gentle and accommodating to his wife, giving her his best self.
Only men with strong hearts can flexibly handle challenges outside and love their wives and families at home.
Watching the TV series “This Is Us,” I was deeply moved by the love and marriage of Jack and Rebecca.
When they first met, Jack was a struggling ex-serviceman, and Rebecca was a popular singer in a bar.
Coming from a less than ideal family, Jack promised to become strong to create a happy marriage with Rebecca.
After marriage, Jack lived up to his promise, becoming a great husband who brought various surprises to their home. He sat outside the bedroom door all night when Rebecca was upset, praised her as the sexiest woman alive when she was pregnant, and encouraged his children in times of trouble.
Even after his death, Jack remained the standard for his children, passing on his spirit to the next generation.
A man who loves his children, spoils his wife, and takes care of his family is undeniably strong.
Amazon CEO Jeff Bezos once said on social media, “The sexiest thing I do is wash dishes for my wife every day at home.”
A man’s greatest charm lies in having a successful career outside and a loving family inside.
He knows that without his wife’s unwavering support, he wouldn’t have achieved his success.
Behind every successful man is a great woman, but behind every warm and loving family is a man with a strong heart.
May you find your own strong harbor to live a sweet and happy life, free from suffering and worry.