“Guys are not bad, girls don’t love them,” we often hear this saying.
In reality, the interactions between men and women are always subtle. They say men think with their lower body, and this saying is not entirely wrong.
In life, men’s sweet talk may sound nice, but few are willing to sacrifice themselves for you. Whether a guy is a player can be seen from his body language, and he can’t fake it.
Icey recently started dating a guy she met on social media. He was humorous and charming, which deeply impressed Icey, so they decided to go on their first date.
When they first met, they had dinner and went to a movie together. During the movie, the guy kept touching her, which made Icey extremely uncomfortable. Later, she stopped contacting him.
When he asked why she didn’t respond, Icey replied, “You didn’t respect me on our first date, so I don’t think we have anything to talk about.”
This shows that a guy’s character is often reflected in his daily life. When a guy respects you, that’s when he truly loves you. If he only wants to satisfy his desires, the relationship will eventually end.
A player can’t hide his true nature, and these signs can reveal his character.
Unconscious Physical Contact
Zhang Ailing once said, “The older you get, the more you realize that what you need is not crazy love.”
When a guy initiates physical contact without realizing it, he probably doesn’t respect you. Even in casual relationships, it’s essential to maintain distance and boundaries.
If a guy tries to initiate physical contact without being aware of it, you should learn to refuse him. Most guys who do this are not reliable.
A guy’s daily actions can also reveal his character. If he doesn’t know how to respect your boundaries, his character is questionable.
I remember when I first started dating my husband, he was very shy. When we went for walks together, he didn’t even dare to hold my hand. Later, I asked him, “Why didn’t you dare to hold my hand when we were dating?”
He was surprised by my question and explained, “I was respecting you.” Honestly, I was touched by his response.
In reality, a guy’s character can be seen in how he treats you. When a guy gives you full respect, it’s also a sign of self-respect.
If a guy only wants to possess you, he doesn’t truly love you.
Loves to Play Games
Chen Guo once said, “Love and gifts should not be asked for; only those who understand you are worthy of your life.”
For a guy, sincerity is hard to come by. When a guy treats emotions as a game, his love will not last long. A guy who likes to play games will not put in his whole heart when it comes to emotions.
A fan recently shared a story with me about her experience:
My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year. He pursued me, and at first, he was very nice to me. However, I’ve noticed that his attitude towards me has become increasingly superficial.
A few days ago, I checked his phone and discovered that he had another WeChat account, which he used to flirt with girls. When I saw their flirtatious messages, I was furious, and this guy instantly lost value in my eyes.
In reality, games can cause people a lot of pain. A guy who likes to play games will not get genuine emotions. When we encounter such guys, we should distance ourselves from them as soon as possible.
Chat Content Is Vulgar
Dong Qing once said, “Human nature is something that cannot be spoken of, researched, or tested.”
The saying goes, “Appreciate someone’s appearance, respect their talent, and admire their character, which will ultimately reveal their true nature.”
In reality, a guy’s character can be seen in his words and actions. When a guy’s chat content is very vulgar, he doesn’t respect you.
A person’s true character is often reflected in their daily life. A guy who doesn’t respect you in his words and actions is not worthy of your love.
To judge whether a guy is a player, look at his daily actions and words. A guy who respects you is worthy of your love. If you want to understand a guy, you need to learn to see his true character.
If a guy exhibits these three traits, he is definitely not reliable, so it’s best to distance yourself from him as soon as possible.