38-Year-Old Woman Mocks Blind Date Man: Monthly Salary 3,000, Are You Even Worthy? She Was Unimpressed After Hearing His Words
Whether it’s a man or a woman, most people seem to have some resistance to blind dates because they think only those who can’t find a partner need to go on blind dates.
It means that they are not doing well in the dating market. Who would want to admit that no one wants them?
As people age, more and more of them gradually lower their guard and start accepting blind dates arranged by family or friends.
Because the older you get, the fewer choices you have. No one really wants to end up alone and lonely.
However, this doesn’t mean that people who go on blind dates have particularly bad conditions. Some just hope to have more opportunities to find true love.
This year, Miss Wang, 38, although not young, has not lowered her standards for a partner, which is why she is still single despite her good looks.
Recently, her cousin introduced her to a man, a distant relative of her cousin’s husband, who is around the same age as Miss Wang and also single. They met at a coffee shop.
After a brief self-introduction by the man mentioning that he works in a state-owned enterprise, Miss Wang directly asked about his monthly income, to which he honestly replied around 3,000.
Hearing this, Miss Wang remained expressionless, seeming indifferent. But later, as she reported the blind date results to her friend at the restroom door, she said, “3,000 a month, how dare he come on a blind date? Is he even worthy?”
Unfortunately, the man preparing to use the restroom overheard her comment. To avoid embarrassment, he returned to his seat instead of entering the restroom.
When Miss Wang came back from the restroom, she made an excuse to leave, and the man, being a gentleman, offered to walk her out.
Although Miss Wang didn’t want him to walk her out, she was surprised to see a Lamborghini with its lights flashing outside when the man pressed the car key at the door.
In the car, Miss Wang asked how a man with a 3,000 monthly salary could afford such a car. He explained that his family is in business, and their company has gone public. He works in a state-owned enterprise mainly to experience a different life.
Just when Miss Wang thought she might have found the right man this time, the man, as she got off the car, said he wasn’t interested in her because he didn’t want a materialistic partner. Otherwise, he wouldn’t still be single.
It seems that many women nowadays prefer crying in a BMW rather than laughing on a bicycle.
Having a good material foundation can indeed solve most problems in life, but it doesn’t mean money is all-powerful or that rich people have no worries.
People from different backgrounds have their own worries. Those who seem to have an enviable life may be shedding countless tears in unseen corners.
Many ordinary working-class families may not even have enough combined income to buy a luxury handbag each month, yet they are happy and always have a smile on their faces.
Love, marriage, a partner—these things are not completely free from the shadow of money, but money can’t control them.
Regarding love, 80% of the world’s poor people mostly have happy relationships, while 80% of the rich people among the 20% lack happy relationships.
For most rich people, they always worry that their partner is with them for ulterior motives. So even when they find true love, they are full of doubts.
On the other hand, those who are already penniless have nothing to offer except their genuine love.
Those who can find love are the ones willing to give their hearts sincerely.
Sometimes, wealth can only prove a person’s ability to make money, not their love for you.
Rich people may be willing to spend a fraction of their wealth to buy you a house, a car, numerous luxury items. On the other hand, a poor person might spend all they have to buy you flowers, take you out for a meal, or get you an inexpensive lipstick.
But among these, the latter’s love for you might be the most sincere because they are willing to give everything for you.
For women who always want to marry a wealthy man, first, you need to consider your own worth. What can you do to please these wealthy men?
Because such men are never short of women—beautiful, gentle, charismatic, etc. What can you do to make someone fall in love with you?
Women often dream of Cinderella’s story happening to them, but this society is realistic. If there were really glass slippers, there would only be one pair, and Cinderella would have already worn them.
People must have self-awareness. Even if it doesn’t help in finding the truth, it is at least a life principle, one of the most important ones.