In this world, money is extremely important. When emotions are involved, money can create crises.
I used to hear adults say that talking about money hurts relationships, but I didn’t understand the reasoning behind it. It wasn’t until I grew up that I realized how much talking about money can hurt relationships.
So, we think that having money means having everything, and we believe that if someone is willing to spend money on us, they must truly care about us.
However, things aren’t always absolute. When someone is willing to spend money on us, we should still observe their behavior in other aspects.
If someone only spends money on us but doesn’t show any affection in other ways, it only means they don’t truly love us.
Honestly, if a man is willing to spend money on you but doesn’t do these things, it means he doesn’t love you.
Won’t Keep a Distance from Other Women
We’re all familiar with the story of Wang Sicong, a rich second-generation heir who would spend lavishly on his girlfriends.
However, we can see that Wang Sicong, although willing to spend money on his girlfriends, would still maintain contact with other women and didn’t keep a distance. He would even sit next to a female celebrity on a show and compliment her on her looks.
Sometimes, a man might be willing to spend money on you because he has a lot of money at home, and he’s just playing around with you, without any genuine intention of building a life together.
Won’t Take Care of You
If a man is only willing to spend money on you but never takes care of you, it means he might not truly love you. You should keep a distance from such a man.
A friend told me that her uncle, who owns three houses in Shenzhen and one in Beijing, would give his wife a lot of money every year. However, when his wife went through a tough time, he didn’t bother to ask about her well-being.
My friend said that when her uncle’s wife fell severely ill, he only gave her some money and told their kids to visit her, but he himself went to Shenzhen and was with another woman. He even said he wanted to divorce his wife.
Won’t Help You with Your Troubles
If a man is only willing to spend money on you but doesn’t help you with your troubles, it means he doesn’t truly love you. You should be aware of such a man.
Sometimes, a man might give you money just to complete a task or to ease his own guilt. For example, if he’s having an affair, he might give you money to compensate for his infidelity.
When you’re facing difficulties, the other person might not be willing to help you. Instead, they might just give you some money to alleviate their own guilt.
Many marriages have reached this point, where they’re just going through the motions.
If you encounter such a person in love, and you’re not married yet, you should know when to back off. A woman should find a man who truly cares about her, and such a man will make her happy.
Won’t Respect Your Parents
If a man doesn’t respect your parents, no matter how much money he spends on you, it means he doesn’t truly love you. If he loves you, he will definitely respect your parents, because they raised you and took care of you.
So, if you bring a guy home and find that he doesn’t respect your parents, you should consider breaking up with him. If you marry someone like that, you’ll find that family conflicts will arise, and he might even be rude to your parents.
Women often have zero emotional intelligence in relationships, so they might even fight with their parents for their boyfriend’s sake. In the end, these women will suffer.
A man who spends money on you but doesn’t do certain things doesn’t have you in his heart. He might just be willing to spend money because he has a lot of it.
But when the time comes for him to choose between you and money, he might choose the latter.