“Getting used to feeling uncomfortable, getting used to missing you, getting used to waiting for you, but never getting used to not seeing you.”
As a writer, Guo Jingming has his own talent when expressing love, so it’s always different from others.
Being human, whether you’re an ordinary person or an artist, we all have the right to express love and have our ways of doing so.
Artists may express love through poetry or drama, while ordinary people integrate love into the little things in life.
Women have their way of loving, and men have theirs. Even though husbands can’t focus solely on their wives and children, love is uncontrollable.
As Marx said: “Love and cough cannot be controlled.”
When a man falls in love with a woman, he will show it through his actions and attitude towards her.
Feeling Jealous
A few years ago, I watched a TV series called “Eight Immortals’ Adventures.” In this series, a girl liked Han Xiangzi, who initially avoided her.
No matter where he went, she would follow.
Eventually, Han Xiangzi felt a pang of jealousy when he saw the girl he liked with someone else.
Sometimes men may not vocalize their love. They may not even realize their feelings until they feel jealous seeing their loved one with another.
Love cannot be shared like family or friendship. Once shared, it can lead to irreparable damage.
Men’s possessiveness may be stronger. While they may seem generous in other aspects, when it comes to their loved one, they may become more protective.
If your man seems indifferent to you being with other men, it may indicate he doesn’t love you as much as you think.
Worrying About You
After a fight with my boyfriend, I had to go out at night alone to buy something. I was nervous, especially in an area with poor security. Someone tried to snatch my bag, and I fled in fear.
When I told my boyfriend, hoping for comfort, he responded coldly, making me realize his lack of care.
A man who truly loves you would worry about your safety and comfort you in times of distress.
Taking Care of You
In Jin Yong’s “The Heaven Sword and Dragon Saber,” Song Qingshu deeply cared for Zhou Zhiruo, even after being injured by her.
When a man loves a woman deeply, he prioritizes her and takes care of her as if she were more important than his own life.
Men who cherish you will treat you like a treasure, while those who don’t may see you as expendable.
Planning Your Future Together
After meeting his wife, Shen Congwen started planning their future together, showing his deep love and commitment.
Some men may only be with you temporarily to fulfill their desires. This can be hurtful and humiliating for women seeking a long-term commitment.
If a man truly loves a woman, he will worry about losing her and actively plan a future together.
When a man is sincerely in love, he hopes to be the first and last man in a woman’s life. If a man plans a future with you, you’ve found a devoted partner.
Men express love differently from women, but with attention, women can perceive their sincerity.