If a man wants to deceive a teenage girl, he uses sweet words; to deceive a woman in her twenties, he gives flowers; but if he wants to deceive a woman in her thirties, he must be sincere.
From the words , we can see women’s growth, but more prominently, we can see that men like to deceive women.
Women are still in a vulnerable position in society, so they lack security in love.
Sometimes, women are foolish and can’t tell if a man truly loves them or is deceiving them.
In reality, if someone truly loves a woman, they will give their best to her, not deceive her with clever tricks to win her affection.
Buying You Very Inexpensive Things
“If a man buys you cheap things, it means he sees you as low-value.”
Many young girls are inexperienced in love, so they may not understand men’s intentions. When a man gives them a small gift during courtship, they feel very happy.
Some men, when dating women, see that the girl has never been in a relationship before, so they buy a cheap doll on the roadside to give her.
If a man can only afford to give his beloved a few dollars worth of gifts, it shows he is truly poor. But if a man is not poor and still gives such cheap gifts, it indicates the woman holds a low position in his heart.
Love cannot be measured by money, but when a man enjoys buying very cheap and worthless things for a woman, it shows she is not highly valued in his eyes.
Many people may wonder why a man would buy gifts for a woman he does not value much. The reason is that other boyfriends also buy gifts for their girlfriends. If you don’t buy anything for your girlfriend, she might feel unhappy seeing other girlfriends receiving gifts.
Sometimes, men use buying gifts for their girlfriends as a way to keep them happy and to serve their own interests.
Smart women will leave such men.
Actually, a man who truly loves a woman will buy the best things for her, never something worth just a few dollars or cents.
I have a friend who, when she first started dating, received a notebook worth only five cents from her boyfriend.
Both of them were already working at the time, yet he gave her a five-cent notebook, which was quite puzzling.
However, since this friend had little dating experience and no emotional baggage, she was deeply touched and kept the notebook as a cherished possession.
A man who genuinely loves a woman will not deceive her in this way. Even if he manages to win her affection through deception, he will feel immense guilt.
Women who have been in relationships understand that when a man buys you very cheap things, it reveals how little you mean to him.
Clever women will distance themselves from such men.
Saying Sweet Words to You
Last year, my cousin brought home a boyfriend.
Initially, everyone in the family was pleased with him because he was handsome and talented.
But after living at my cousin’s house for two months, the family’s attitude towards him changed drastically.
Although my cousin’s boyfriend spoke very eloquently, he did nothing around the house. Whenever my cousin needed help, he would only offer sweet words instead of actual assistance.
To outsiders, he seemed considerate because of his silver tongue, but when real help was needed, he was nowhere to be found.
A man who truly loves a woman will not just talk about love but will prove it through actions!
“Some people are all talk and no action.”
In relationships, there are many who talk big but act differently. They may speak sweet words but disappoint when it comes to actions.
A man who genuinely loves a woman will not just talk about love but will prove it through actions.
A man who relies on sweet words to deceive a woman is hoping to keep her with words without putting in any effort.
If a woman encounters a man whose actions do not match his words, who never fulfills his promises, she should leave him early.
Every promise a man makes to a woman is a deception if his actions do not match his words. If a man’s kindness exists only in words, a woman will not have a good life with him after marriage.
Pressuring You
A sensitive topic during marriage discussions is the bride price.
There is an aunt who experienced the following:
When she was getting married, her family demanded a bride price of 30,000 yuan from her fiancé’s family.
Her fiancé claimed he could not afford the amount and suggested they work together to earn it.
Because the aunt loved her fiancé deeply, she trusted him completely. They agreed to work together, earn the 30,000 yuan, and then get married.
She thought that since her family wanted 30,000 yuan from her fiancé, she and her fiancé could earn that amount together through work.
However, after working together for a year and saving their salaries, her fiancé disappeared with all the money.
He took all the hard-earned money the aunt had saved over a year. Whenever she called him, he would hang up, and eventually, he blocked her number.
A man who is reluctant to pay the bride price and deceives you into working together to earn it is not someone you should trust.
A man who truly loves a woman will give her the bride price instead of asking her to work for it together.
While the bride price may be a mere number to a man, it signifies the level of respect he has for the woman in her eyes.
Many women want to feel valued by men, not for the sake of money.
Whether it’s a man or a woman, true love means giving the best to the other person, not deceiving them in any way.