“Love between men and women is the most intense and true emotion.”
Many men struggle when pursuing women because they can’t tell if the women like them. Understanding a woman’s thoughts seems challenging to many men.
Every man wants to find a gentle and virtuous woman to be his wife. However, in real life, many people feel lost when dealing with emotions.
To judge a woman’s character is actually simple. Just give her a gift, and you’ll know.
Not long ago, a friend shared his story with me:
We’ve been dating for three months, but she hasn’t given me a clear answer. I was the one pursuing her. At the beginning of our relationship, she neither rejected nor accepted my confession. To win her heart, I went out of my way to please her.
I remember one time on her birthday, I took her shopping and let her choose whatever she liked. For the first gift, she picked an expensive one, around $20,000. I was surprised but seeing her happy, I bought it without hesitation, thinking her happiness was all that mattered.
I confessed to her again later, but she politely declined. Maybe she wanted more time with me, so I didn’t mind. I treated her better because I believed that was the way to get her response.
But as our relationship progressed, I noticed she became more materialistic, always wanting me to go shopping with her, and the expenses added up each time. I do like her, but her attitude made me uneasy.
I don’t know if she’s after my money or cares about me as a person.
I talked to her about it, but she didn’t give a clear reply.
I don’t know if this relationship can continue. I really like her, so I’m willing to do so much for her. But her attitude makes me hesitate because I believe a relationship should be a mutual effort. If my warmth isn’t reciprocated, it will hurt me in the end.
I’m still pursuing her, but she hasn’t given me any hints. I’m anxious and unsure if this relationship is worth it.
After hearing his story, I felt sorry for this guy. Many men in real life might have encountered similar situations. Materialism can indeed test a person’s character. To truly judge a woman’s character, you don’t need much probing; just giving her a gift will do.
A Materialistic Woman Doesn’t Love You
Balzac once said, “The more intense and sincere the love, the more implicit it should be.”
Genuine feelings require mutual effort. When you pursue someone, you should also get a response. If a woman only wants to take advantage of you, using your affection to demand various gifts, she probably loves taking advantage of others.
Capable women don’t rely entirely on a man because they know how to pay for themselves and not exploit others. If a woman is too materialistic, using emotions as an excuse to consume your time and energy, she probably doesn’t love you.
Appreciating someone starts with looks, respects talent, aligns with personality, endures kindness, and remains loyal to character. Reflecting on this saying, it makes sense.
Sometimes, women will trick you into buying gifts through various excuses to flaunt their lives on social media. If you encounter such a person, it’s best to distance yourself early.
Ability Determines Cultivation
Haywood once said, “To a person with strong abilities, nothing is impossible.”
In real life, truly capable women don’t seek others’ advantages. They can afford what they like and can handle the expenses. These women are of high caliber.
Some women may seem delicate on the surface but lead a chaotic life. Such delicacy can only be fake. A truly capable woman is refined. When a man gives them a gift, they will reciprocate, showing their quality and upbringing through details.
A woman’s character is also reflected in various aspects of life. When two people aren’t very familiar, if a man initiates to give a gift, a woman’s response can reflect her character and upbringing.
Respecting each other is fundamental in a relationship. If this basic respect is missing, the relationship won’t last.
A man paying represents gentlemanly manners, but a woman’s reply also indicates her quality.
When a man can’t truly determine a woman’s true character, giving her a gift is a simple solution. If a woman responds positively to your gift, it shows her high quality. If she takes your gift for granted, it’s best to distance yourself from such a person.