Why aren’t you married yet?
Marriageable men and women, perhaps there’s indeed a small group of people who truly don’t want to get married, but for the vast majority, even if they enjoy being single, deep down, they still long for marriage.
They yearn for the beauty of being together, hoping to have someone by their side, facing things together.
The desire for marriage, however, has always been solitary throughout the years.
There’s no other reason, it’s just that, all along, they haven’t met someone of the opposite sex who’s quite suitable.
Marriage is a lifetime commitment, and it’s not something that just anyone can do.
In the vast sea of people, everyone encounters many, but many of these encounters lack a certain feeling and are difficult to sustain. However, when meeting the right person, our feeling truly becomes particularly strong.
Instant Connection, Being Together Feels Comfortable
Between people, the experience is truly different when getting close to different people.
For some reason, with some people, we feel very uncomfortable at first sight, we feel resistant and want to avoid them.
With others, for some reason, we feel very favorable right from the start, not necessarily infatuated, but we have a very familiar and close feeling.
Unconsciously, we always long to be close to them, to spend time together.
Being with them, we feel completely at ease, and very content.
There’s no sense of oppression, nothing feels wrong, just a special comfort, we can talk about anything, or we can just be quiet together.
We, and they, in a way, mutually recognize and respect each other, inexplicably, we always feel a sense of security and peace of mind in them.
This feeling, we’ve never felt it with anyone else, only that person gives us a completely different experience, and brings us a joy we’ve never experienced before.
Mutual Empowerment, Both Become Better Versions of Themselves
There are always some people who, when alone, everything is fine, but after being with someone, they start to doubt themselves, look haggard, and their luck declines.
In short, everything becomes particularly difficult, their lives gradually become worse.
If two people in love don’t nourish each other, and only become less like themselves, with no inner joy, only full of fear and resentment, such love is certainly not suitable.
In love, if all it brings is harm, then it’s not really love.
Truly suitable people will definitely not just consume, but will nurture each other and bring strength to one another.
Because of this encounter, we become more confident than ever, we start to believe that we’re actually quite good, and that we deserve to be loved and deserve to have the best in this world.
Not only do we exude confidence from within, we also radiate more than ever from the outside. Loved by someone, we exude a unique aura from the inside out.
Both sides are grateful to have met each other, witnessing each other’s growth, becoming better people together, and making each other’s lives better and closer to the desired ideal.
Longing for Marriage, Wanting to Go a Long Way
If the person we meet isn’t right, even if we know we’re not getting any younger and should be married, the thought of marrying them and walking through life with them is very unappealing.
For some reason, we always think that marrying them means a bleak future, which is quite despairing.
Loving someone doesn’t require much thought, just follow your heart, but marriage and living together require us to consider a lot, we simply can’t be reckless.
We still hope that our partner is someone we can accept, and we really want to marry them.
The feeling we don’t accept, has never been able to give us, and when we really like someone, and we’re really suitable for each other, we won’t hesitate about getting married.
There’s no reluctance, once we meet and get to know each other, we’re already looking forward to a shared future, and we want to enter the marriage hall with them.
We don’t just want to be with them now, we really want to spend our whole lives with them.
Through them, we can truly see a brighter and more desirable future.
In this world, there will definitely be someone, or a group of people, who are just right for us.
Everyone is the same, and there’s always someone who’s just right for us.
There will be someone, and that person isn’t so easy to meet, and even if we have the chance to meet them, we might not be able to grasp it, and we might just miss it.
Meeting the right person requires a bit of luck, and the courage to seize the opportunity when we meet that person.
We can only continue to meet people, and find our own luck from there.
Courage is needed when we meet that person, we must know how to hold on and try to keep them as much as possible.
Many people want to be happy, and the happiness we want must be created by ourselves, and guarded.