In a magazine, I read the following statement:
“The difference between men and dogs is that a year later, a dog will still be excited to see you.”
Some people say:
“In a world full of flowers, men with flowery hearts deceive women; achieving their goal, they change their hearts, leaving daughters of the world in distress.”
In this world, many men are still quite fickle when it comes to relationships. Women from disadvantaged groups always think twice in love.
Many women end up getting hurt in relationships. After a man takes their virginity and then abandons them, their future husband may not cherish them anymore.
Men feel they are in love with a woman because they are happy. Women end up giving themselves to a man to find a partner.
Sometimes, they give away their hearts and bodies, only to end up losing the man in the end.
Therefore, women must be cautious in life. Some men may have ulterior motives, even if they are with you. They might already have a family but still want to sleep with you, so they get close to you.
When it comes to relationships, observing these three places will make it clear whether a man wants to marry you or just sleep with you.
A man who wants to marry you will care about your physical condition
Watching a variety show:
A woman on stage mentioned that her husband had never taken care of her since they got together. Whenever she fell ill, she had to go to the hospital alone, even during IV drips.
The woman expressed that she no longer knew what love felt like. She thought the man loved her back then and gave herself to him after they started living together.
However, the man started feeling they were not suitable together. He wanted to break up, leaving her feeling lost as she had given herself to him and wanted to make it work.
After being together for many years, the woman felt the man never cared about her physical well-being, just like before they got married.
A man who wants to marry you will think long-term. For instance, if a woman gets pregnant after they sleep together, a man who truly wants to be with her will not let her undergo an abortion. He fears the consequences and wants to take responsibility.
If a man doesn’t care about your physical condition, it shows he doesn’t truly care about you. In a relationship, if one person falls ill, it becomes both individuals’ concern, not just yours.
A man who wants to sleep with you just wants to possess you
In relationships, a man who wants to marry you will not rush things. But a man who wants to sleep with you will constantly think about bed activities.
A man who wants to marry you understands that you will be his eventually, and he will patiently wait for you to willingly share a bed with him.
However, a man who simply wants to fulfill a desire will keep pressuring you to give yourself to him.
Someone who wants to sleep with you wants to possess you. They will act very eager when together and always try to keep you away from going back home.
Men usually have needs in this aspect, but if a man only wants to sleep with you, it’s just a desire. Wanting to marry you involves a sense of responsibility.
As adults, we should be responsible for ourselves and discern the intentions of the people we are involved with. If someone only wants physical intimacy, they may have ulterior motives, and this should be a red flag.
Men who rush into bed early in a relationship show irresponsibility and no intention of a long-term commitment.
A man who wants to marry you will proactively propose
“Those who once vowed never to part ways have long since scattered to the ends of the earth.”
Some men and women are sweet to each other and swear they will never separate.
But words are fragile. Those who vowed never to part ways eventually go their separate paths.
A man who truly wants to be with you will proactively propose.
In a recent episode of a relationship show, the female lead was there to force a proposal, but the man was adamant against marrying her. The host eventually said, “Let go, the other party will not marry you, trust me.”
A man who wants to marry you will propose on his own, not make you wait and ask continuously.
A couple on the show had been living together for five years. Despite sharing a bed, the man refused to marry the woman despite her urging. This shows he is only interested in her sexually and not in a lifelong commitment.
A great person once said:
“Any love affair without marriage as the goal is a fraud.”
Many men enter relationships just to satisfy their physical desires. Some women mistakenly believe men love them, but men often have serious physical needs, which might be why they seek a girlfriend.
No woman wants to be just a man’s sexual object. They hope for a man to marry them, but how many lucky ones are there?
We may not be lucky or smart enough, but we can observe a man’s behavior closely. Sometimes, their actions in certain situations can reveal their true intentions.