“People often say that people lack money, but in reality, they lack love.”
If you work hard, you’ll definitely earn money. But sometimes, you invest a lot in people you think are important, yet you still don’t get the respect and love you deserve.
That’s why a host said, “In this world, earning money is the most reliable. Money won’t get lost.”
Money only goes to those who work hard, but people don’t always know how to be grateful.
So, more and more people become very practical and stop believing in love.
Just like the book “Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus” says, “Many people who no longer have love in their hearts have been hurt by others.”
At the beginning, people are always full of hope for others, just like they believe the world is full of sunshine.
However, as time goes by, they realize that many things are not as they thought.
People who become obsessed with money sometimes lack love, not money.
In the classic “Les Misérables,” there is a scene like this:
Cosette’s mother, when she was young, was deceived by a scoundrel.
Later, Cosette’s mother gave birth to her alone, but in those days, it wasn’t easy for a woman to raise a child alone.
So, when she was two years old, her mother sent her to live with a landlord.
The child was sent to the landlord’s house, and her mother had to go out to earn money, working hard day and night.
Due to a lack of money, Cosette’s mother did a lot of hard work.
Later, the landlord sent a letter saying that the child needed to go to school, so Cosette’s mother had to send money. She even sold her teeth.
In reality, this money was not used for Cosette; it was withheld by the landlord.
The toys that should have belonged to Cosette were taken by the landlord’s children. Despite this, the landlord continued to send letters to Cosette’s mother.
Later, her mother sold her hair and did many things to sell her body.
In the eyes of many, both the mother and daughter ended up in this situation because of a lack of money.
However, imagine if Cosette had been born into a happy family; the situation would have been different.
The reason they ended up like this is not because of a lack of money, but because there was no one to care for them.
Cosette’s mother was a woman abandoned by a man, and she herself was a child abandoned by others.
Two people who depended on each other were doomed to tragedy.
Many things in life are not due to a lack of money, but to a lack of people who love you.
The other day, the old man next door got sick.
After the old man got sick, his children didn’t take care of him.
They thought the old man might have a serious illness that would cost a lot of money, so no one wanted to spend money on his treatment.
Some even thought that instead of spending money on the old man’s treatment, it would be better to find a job outside to earn some money.
So, no one took care of the old man.
Later, the old man went to the county hospital by himself, paid for his medical expenses, and returned home in good health.
But when he talked about getting sick, tears filled his eyes.
The old man never expected that the children he had raised with so much effort would not take care of him.
Sometimes, human nature is the hardest to endure, so few deliberately test human nature.
The children he raised with so much effort ended up making him a person lacking love.
There are many things in life that are hard to explain. Sometimes, investing in relationships and human nature is meaningless.
In the end, you realize that what you lack is not how much money you’ve spent, but how much love you’ve given.
When you need others, they always think you’re after their money.
When you see that others think you’re after their money, it’s very disappointing.
A friend said her boyfriend is very stingy.
Whenever they go out, he insists on splitting all expenses equally, despite having a stable job.
Every time we sit together, she asks me to analyze their future.
There’s an old saying: “A man who spends money on you doesn’t necessarily love you, but someone who can’t bear to let you spend money definitely doesn’t love you.”
Many things are not about money; it’s about the person’s heart.
People can consider money very important, because there’s an old saying: “Money talks,” but it’s not the most important thing.
If money is the most important thing, then how much value do you have in the eyes of others?
So, if someone is reluctant to spend money on you, and yet you try to make them spend money on you, what you’re lacking is not money, but care and love from the other person.
When a person can’t give you what you want, you try to test them, hoping they’ll change. But in the eyes of the other person, this is being greedy, because when they don’t have feelings for you, spending money on you becomes a burden.
I once heard this internet saying: “I’d rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bicycle.”
Although people need to be shrewd and practical, sometimes they need to consider the present situation.
If someone doesn’t have feelings for you, you’ll end up crying in a BMW every day, even if the person is very wealthy. Is this the life you want?
If someone has feelings for you, even if you’re on a bicycle, you’ll be happy every day.
A person lacking love is more pitiful than a person lacking money. Being with someone just for money won’t stand the test of time.
“If a person is with you for your beauty, you will eventually lose that person. If a person is with you for your money, you won’t be happy in the future.”
You should find someone who is willing to spend money on you, but the prerequisite is that they must first give you love.
A person who is unwilling to part with anything for you usually means you lack love, not money.