People who often say these things to you don’t love you that much, delete them
Henry D. Montelang once said:
“If there is no love in my life, it will be destroyed.”
I think this sentence is most suitable for women. Every woman, whether in love or in marriage, desires to receive love from a man. A marriage without love is like stagnant water, unable to create ripples.
People have different definitions of love. Some believe love is just sweet words without the need for commitments.
Some people are used to substituting sweet words for love, thinking that saying those words, whether giving or receiving, is the best expression of love.
Especially in love, some people easily fall in love with words, getting used to enjoying that kind of love, being misled by the sweet words of men.
Repeatedly compromising their bottom line, even lying to themselves, women still choose to lose themselves in the lies of sweet words.
For men who are used to loving with words, sweet words are just like casual conversations to them, able to say a few heart-touching words effortlessly.
Some men indeed love you when they say these things, but some say them not out of love for you, but to avoid trouble or because they see you as a backup. If you encounter such men, just delete them because they truly do not love you.
“Please forgive me this time.”
When a man often says to you, “Please forgive me this time, I won’t make the same mistake again,” it means he often verbally promises you but fails to keep his word, or he does things that hurt you and then begs for your forgiveness.
If a man frequently apologizes to you like this on the phone, it means he is not putting enough effort into the relationship and does not love you as much as you think. Otherwise, he wouldn’t have the chance to keep saying, “Please forgive me this time.”
Because he doesn’t value you enough, he repeatedly crosses your boundaries, causing you harm. If someone doesn’t remember your boundaries, it means he doesn’t love you as much. So, when a man often sends you these messages on the phone, just delete him. He doesn’t love you that much.
“Darling, my phone died, so I couldn’t message you in time.”
When you chat with a man and he often doesn’t reply to your messages promptly, making you wait a long time and then apologizing, it means either he has an unpredictable work schedule or he doesn’t care about your feelings enough to reply promptly.
If you know his regular working hours and roughly when he is free, and you message him during his rest time but he still takes a long time to reply, it means either he was genuinely busy or he didn’t want to reply to your messages.
Or perhaps he wasn’t convenient to reply at that moment, so he chose to reply when it suited him. But if a man often ignores your messages, it means your thoughts don’t align, and he doesn’t love you enough to adjust his schedule to chat with you.
When a man often wants to apologize to you on the phone, it means he knows his actions upset you but can easily get your forgiveness, so he repeatedly crosses your boundaries. Such a man actually doesn’t love you that much. Delete him when you encounter him.
“Baby, I’m going to sleep, you should rest early too.”
When chatting with a man on the phone, if he often says this and always ends the conversation before you, it means he never considers your feelings.
Maybe you were feeling down and just wanted him to chat with you to feel better, but he didn’t notice and hurriedly ended the conversation each time. Because someone who loves you wouldn’t overlook these subtle things.
When a man often says this to you, just leave. He doesn’t love you as much as you think.
In life, we encounter different people. Some men are good at talking sweetly but lack sincerity. They think they can handle all women and end up playing around with different women, showing their unfaithfulness rather than true love for you.
So, when encountering such men, women should make up their minds early, delete them, and not get deeper into the situation, avoiding unnecessary heartache.