Love can be puzzling at times. Some people say they love you, but their actions hurt you. Some men don’t love you, yet they consume your time. Some women don’t love you, yet they use their appearance to confuse you. Whether it’s a man or a woman, being ambivalent in relationships will surely have consequences.
There’s a saying: “Don’t make promises easily, because only the listener will remember many words.”
It’s the same with relationships. Don’t make promises easily. If you receive love, cherish it and reciprocate.
How many chances at youth does a girl have? Who would leave someone they once deeply loved unless they were extremely disappointed?
For a girl, how much damage will those who are ambivalent in relationships cause? If you love, love deeply. If not, don’t hurt. When a girl loves a man unconditionally, she shouldn’t be let down.
It’s not about whether two people are compatible, but whether they cherish each other. Those who are ambivalent in relationships will inevitably face consequences.
What gives a woman hope is not just love, but a man’s responsibility. What gives a man a sense of security is not just love, but a woman’s dedication to the family.—Tu Lei
Good love is mutual. One-sided efforts yield no results.
Some say, “Over time, a couple will lose the joy of sharing.” But I think good love involves experiencing new things together, not repeating old things with someone new. Those who give up because they’ve lost the novelty will not find happiness in the end.
Whether it’s between lovers or spouses, the end of a topic is the beginning of true love. Only strangers have curiosity for each other. For two people in an intimate relationship, understanding each other is the best expression.
Just like the saying, having numerous backup plans only signifies being cheap and futile. The higher the person’s caliber, the more serious they are about relationships. Those who treat love as a game won’t earn respect.
The breakup of Show Lo and Grace Chow has greatly tarnished Show Lo’s image. Even if he speaks passionately in the end, others will be critical. Love is not a game.
It requires wholehearted effort and nurturing. It’s not easy to meet the right person in a lifetime. Two people together should help each other grow. Those who are indifferent to love will ultimately lose the world and each other.
“Easy to fall in love, hard to stay together; easy to stay together, hard to trust; easy to trust, hard to forgive.”
Love should be the most beautiful memory. Love at first sight is easy, but not forgetting the initial love is hard. When our efforts are repeatedly unrewarded, we feel particularly distressed. When we repeatedly forgive, we find that love has lost its original beauty.
I hope everyone understands that marriage is not easy. Cherish it while you can. After losing many things, we learn the meaning of cherishing, only to find it’s too late.
If it’s true love, don’t miss each other. If not, still, don’t hurt each other.
“The happiest thing in my life is meeting you. I never expected life to be so happy. Before I met you, I always thought I was very strong and powerful, and that I could handle any hardship.
But since I’ve been with you, I don’t want to be strong anymore, because I can tell you all my unhappiness right away. You make me the happiest person. I can always be like a child in front of you. I’m especially grateful for your tolerance all these years.”
Good love can stay fresh forever. Those who can easily leave indicate that they never really belonged to you. There’s no need to regret. Those who are not serious about relationships are not worth our nostalgia.
Good love doesn’t require you to desperately chase after it. Those who truly love you will embrace you willingly. A breakfast place won’t stay open until nighttime; those who want to eat will arrive early. But a late-night snack place will stay open until morning; the one waiting for you will wait.
You can never wake someone pretending to be asleep. You can never move someone who doesn’t love you. Learning to let go of what you can’t hold is also an attitude.
Because those who are ambivalent in relationships will eventually face consequences. For you, you’ve only lost someone who didn’t love you. But for the other person, they’ve lost much more.