“Marriage doesn’t guarantee happiness, and being single doesn’t mean unhappiness.”
Sometimes, marriage doesn’t bring the happiness we expect. Even when single, we can still live freely and happily.
Some women don’t have a good life after marriage. They fear that life might be worse after divorce, so they settle and continue living with someone they’re not happy with.
Life is short. If you settle, your life will end sooner than you think.
There was a lady who was very independent. Her husband treated her poorly, so she divorced him without hesitation. In those days, people were conservative, so many criticized her for divorcing.
However, she didn’t care. She didn’t call it divorce; she proudly resumed being single.
Later, she went to do business in New York. Now, she’s a wealthy woman, successful in her career, and many admire her. But she prefers being alone. She feels she has money, a car, a house, and doesn’t need anyone.
After hearing her story, I realized sometimes it’s not about divorce, but proudly embracing single life.
In every era, there are strong women who shine and maintain their dignity.
Marriage Isn’t Everything
Marriage isn’t everything. If you think getting married solves everything and concludes your life, you’re mistaken.
Marriage is a new beginning. After marriage, life truly begins a new chapter.
You’ll realize after marriage, there are many trivial matters. You might think everything ends after marriage, but in reality, more challenges arise. The person who was so good to you before might change after marriage.
Some men are attentive before marriage, fearing separation. But things change after marriage.
If women place too much importance on marriage, it’s not good for them.
Elegance Knows No Boundaries
Elegant people are always elegant.
Some women fear divorce after marriage, societal judgments, and worry that the next marriage might be worse. They waste so much time in conflict.
An elegant person lives freely and with dignity, no matter when or where.
Sometimes staying in a marriage is a blow to your dignity, making you feel oppressed. It might seem like everything is fine, but only the woman knows how painful it is.
Being elegant helps you live freely. As a woman, never forget to live freely and comfortably. Being comfortable is better than anything else. Being good to yourself is the best.
Sometimes Being Single is Better Than Marriage
Sometimes being single is better than marriage. When single, you earn and spend on your terms. After marriage, although you have someone to rely on, you also share responsibilities.
Marriage doesn’t guarantee support. It’s only you and your parents you can rely on in this world. After marriage, even parents might not be reliable. Therefore, self-reliance is key.
Casual Attitude Leads to Regret
If a woman is casual in a relationship, not considering herself, the man won’t cherish her anymore.
A casual attitude doesn’t lead to a good ending. Some women sacrifice everything for love, but if done before marriage, the man might not appreciate it later.
Some men have a conscience. They realize the sacrifices a woman made before marriage and treat her well. However, most men think cheap things aren’t valuable.
In today’s society, we often see videos of couples living together before marriage. Many people comment on these videos, even kids, showing how toxic societal perceptions are.
If you don’t respect yourself, don’t expect others to love you. If you do unnecessary things before marriage that hurt women, no one might cherish you later.
There is a type of women who proudly resume single life after divorce. Women should focus on mental independence, financial independence, and always remember to live well. Don’t make marriage the center of love or life.