In the show “Defending Love,” a relationship expert said:
“Some women, when they see their husband or boyfriend treating them well, like to act up. As a result, a perfectly good relationship is ruined by the woman herself.”
Many women in this world want a beautiful love story but can’t find it. Some women have had several wonderful relationships but ruined them themselves.
Relationships are about mutual respect, just like the Chinese saying goes, so when someone is good to you, be good to them too. Don’t think men have no temper. In fact, men just don’t argue with you. But if you keep it up, men will get tired too.
Women who often act like this end up ruining their own happiness.
Getting angry at men over trivial matters
If a woman often gets angry at a man over trivial matters, the man may apologize at first. But over time, he will get fed up with it.
In life, there are always trivial matters. When you are with someone, you will encounter more things because you are together often.
When a woman constantly gets angry over trivial matters, the relationship with the man will deteriorate.
Love can gradually fade away. If you fuss over trivial matters to get a man’s attention, it may backfire.
Remember, you are not a child anymore. Men have their temper too. Sometimes you can’t be too stubborn and picky. Making a fuss over trivial matters to torture a man will lead to the feelings fading away. So, when doing things, give men some leeway.
Never giving men face
Some men seem worthless in front of you because when they are out shopping or hanging out with friends, you never give them face.
When a woman finds her man among his friends, she never gives him face and may even scold him.
Women think they are showing off by doing this, but they never consider how embarrassed the man might feel.
If a woman never gives a man face, he will get very angry over time and may have to break up with her.
So, if you notice a woman not giving face to her man, the man may start avoiding her.
As the man starts avoiding the woman, she will become more suspicious. With increasing suspicions, conflicts will arise, leading the relationship to an end.
Therefore, women should remember that men like to have face. When with a man, give him some face, no matter what you say at home, give him some space outside.
Demanding expensive gifts due to vanity
Some women, driven by vanity, demand expensive gifts from men, causing problems in the relationship.
I remember a college girl who wanted her boyfriend to buy her expensive gifts, despite both being students.
One of her friends had a boyfriend with a good job who bought her expensive gifts. The girl, wanting to compete, asked her boyfriend for gifts too.
Initially, the boyfriend bought her many gifts, but his financial situation was limited, leading to problems.
Even in such situations, the woman kept demanding gifts, forcing the man to break up with her.
So, don’t let vanity lead you to ruin a beautiful relationship. Consider your and your man’s actual situation. Don’t think you deserve something just because others have it.
Always believing she is right no matter what
Some women always think they are right in any situation with their husband or boyfriend, never admitting fault.
As an adult, you should take responsibility for your actions instead of always blaming others.
Women should understand that they are not always right. It’s okay to apologize to a man when you are wrong.
Men also desire love and sometimes have their own worries. Women should learn to understand and comfort men.
Everyone should pursue their happiness and not blame all mistakes on men. By being a good woman, you will meet someone who treats you well.
Finding a life partner is not easy, so cherish it while you can.