I recently saw a video online about the love story of the author and her boyfriend.
After watching this story, my eyes became moist. I felt their relationship was really good, and I was very envious. Later, I read several comments below, and a few of them touched me:
- Must be long-lasting and good.
- Wishing you a long and happy life.
- Must be good for a lifetime.
- You must wear a wedding dress at 60.
These comments all express good wishes for the two to love each other for a lifetime, although the words may vary, the meaning is the same.
“People often have momentary impulses, but true long-lasting love is rare.”
This also indicates how difficult it is to obtain a man’s long-lasting love in this world.
But this is every woman’s lifelong wish. Which woman doesn’t want to receive a man’s everlasting love?
Loving someone now doesn’t mean you will love them ten years from now. If after ten years you still love and hold onto each other, then I truly admire you.
Things evolve with time, and so do people’s feelings.
Yet, some people have learned to love someone forever. These men will give the best treatment to their beloved women.
Smart women will seize such men, but women with low emotional intelligence won’t distinguish between good and bad, missing out on a good man.
Only those willing to give you long-lasting love will provide such treatment, which most people cannot enjoy.
Caring deeply about you over trivial matters
There is a phrase that goes like this: “Making a fuss over nothing.”
In a relationship, if a man truly loves a woman, he will pay attention to small details. For example, when a woman has a stomach ache, the man will prepare brown sugar water or buy medicine for her.
If a man doesn’t love you much, he might think you can endure it, but a man in love will do many things for you. Sometimes you may feel he is overreacting, but these actions prove his love for you.
In life, if a man can’t see when a woman is in pain, physically or emotionally, then he surely doesn’t love her. He doesn’t consider continuing a quiet life together with her.
Famous philosopher Karl Marx once said:
“Love and a cough cannot be concealed.”
When you love someone deeply, every move of theirs is etched in your heart. You can’t help but care for them, just like you can’t help but cough when you have a cold.
So, when a man cares deeply about you and treats you well, a woman must cherish it.
Working hard from dawn till dusk for you
Some men, despite humble beginnings, are willing to work tirelessly for a woman they love.
If a man loves a woman, he wants to give her his best. Sometimes, seeing other women have things his woman doesn’t, he feels upset. He wants his efforts to change his fate and provide his woman with what she desires.
Some men, when they see their woman lacks something, and they can’t provide it, think of breaking up. But this is just an excuse. A man truly in love will want to give his woman everything, strive to change for her, and offer her all she desires through his efforts, not by parting ways and letting her find it herself.
When in love, one doesn’t run away but strives to change oneself and provide everything the partner desires through hard work.
Some women think men leave for their own good, to avoid burdening them. But it only proves the man doesn’t love them, as a man in love will strive to conquer the world for his woman.
Quitting the habit of philandering for you
Some men are very flirtatious in life, like the well-known figure, Wang Sicong, a playboy who changes girlfriends frequently, often with internet celebrities.
These men are quite flirtatious. Their relationships don’t last long, and many call them playboys.
Many think these men are heartless, only playing with others’ feelings in relationships. Some believe women are only with them for money, devoid of genuine emotions, a transactional relationship.
Sometimes, their relationships are not as simple as imagined; maybe Wang Sicong just hasn’t met someone he truly loves. If he does, he might change and settle down for a good life.
In this world, why do people philander? Simply because they haven’t found someone they truly love yet.
So, never casually label someone as a philanderer. They might just not have found the one they truly love.
Every person they are with, they don’t like, they don’t invest feelings.
Letting you manage finances
If a man truly loves a woman and wants to spend a lifetime with her, he will entrust all his money to her. Money is crucial to men because they know without it, they can’t survive or earn respect, especially from their woman.
Many say women are materialistic, seeking a wealthy partner. But men are more pragmatic, understanding the importance of money and survival.
So, if a woman finds her partner entrusting her with all his money, allowing her to spend freely and manage it, it’s a sign of trust. At this point, you must realize the man truly loves you.
There’s a saying: “A man who spends money on you may not love you, but a man who is unwilling to spend on you definitely doesn’t love you.”
However, a man who lets you manage money truly loves you. Entrusting you with all his wealth signifies giving his all to you.
So when a woman meets such a man, she must seize the opportunity.
Every woman desires a long-lasting love. They always want to be the only one for a man, his final woman.