“Why was he so passionate when pursuing me, but became hot and cold after winning me over?”
In real life, many people are puzzled and unsure about this question.
So, what should you do when a man acts hot and cold towards you?
Smart women don’t cling desperately. They don’t interrogate either. They just need to take these three steps to make a man fall deeper for them.
Don’t cling desperately. The worst thing in a relationship is being clingy because the more you try to hold on, the more the other person wants to leave.
When a man acts hot and cold towards you, there’s a reason. The first step is to understand the reason. Whatever the reason may be, do not cling on. The more you cling, the more he wants to escape.
Sometimes love is like sand in your hand; the tighter you grasp, the faster it slips away.
Instead, by being calm and not disturbing him, you can ignite his desire to reach out to you.
Men find it hard to let go of a woman who remains emotionally stable when faced with their indifference. Not clinging is about respecting yourself. In a relationship, don’t love in a subservient way, and never lose yourself.
Learn to improve yourself. Everyone’s time is limited, and investing time in yourself is more meaningful than in others.
As a woman, never focus all your time and energy on a man. Just like in the movie “Eat Drink Man Woman,” life is like a box of chocolates; you never know what you’re going to get.
In relationships, there are too many unknowns. Love yourself first. When you love yourself, your life becomes happier.
Men have a strong desire to conquer. The more excellent a woman is, the more a man wants to have and conquer her. When you don’t pin all your hopes on one man, he starts to value you more.
When a man acts hot and cold towards you, it means your charm is good. So, take this time to learn and improve, which will bring more joy to your life.
Maintain a sense of mystery. When a woman is too transparent in front of a man, his desire to understand her decreases.
A woman who maintains a sense of mystery can arouse a man’s desire.
Men desire conquest. When you are too easy to handle, a man won’t value you.
A woman who keeps a sense of mystery can spark a man’s desire. Don’t be too transparent in front of a man or rely too much on him, as it will only lead to his disdain and boredom.
Men are like kites; let them fly further at times, but they should return to you when needed. This is a woman’s greatest skill.
When a man plays hot and cold, don’t create a scene or act unreasonably. Quietly become a better version of yourself; that’s the right choice.