Xu Zhimo said, “I’ll search for my unique soulmate in the vast sea of people; if I find them, I’ll be lucky; if not, it’s my fate.”
A soulmate is what we all dream of, but for many people, they can only accept their fate and live a carefree life.
Love is an intangible thing that can only be felt by the heart. That’s why there are so many breakups and heartaches, and our true hearts are often misguided.
However, in the early stages of love, we can’t judge whether it will have a good ending or if the two people can become soulmates. Only after a period of getting to know each other can we see the depth of their connection.
To know if someone is your soulmate, don’t get lost in the love; instead, analyze your feelings and the state of your relationship.
When you meet your soulmate, you’ll have these three signs, and it won’t be wrong.
Shakespeare said, “Pursuing love is beautiful, but receiving it without pursuit is even more beautiful.”
After falling in love, men will think, “Since I love her, I must spend my heart, energy, and money to pursue her, no matter how far the road is, and I’ll persist and strive for love.”
Women will think, “If he pursues me, I mustn’t agree too easily; otherwise, he’ll think I’m not dignified and too casual.” So, I’ll test him a bit, let him pursue me for a longer time, and spend more heart and energy, so he’ll cherish me.
But in reality, there’s a kind of love that doesn’t need to be so complicated or difficult. As long as the hearts of two people are on the same level, love comes easily.
Just like Qian Zhongshu and Yang Jiang’s love story. When they first met, Qian Zhongshu said, “I’m not engaged,” and Yang Jiang replied, “I don’t have a boyfriend.”
That’s how a romantic love story began, and they spent their lives together.
For each other, they were each other’s soulmate, but before becoming partners, they didn’t have to go through hardships and tests.
Chernyshevsky said, “The meaning of love lies in helping each other grow and improve.”
True soulmates should be like that, helping each other grow and improve, not becoming obstacles to each other’s success.
In real life, people who are casual and reckless in love are common.
They always ask about their importance, comparing themselves to their partner’s career and family. Maybe their partner will say they’re important, but that’s only during the honeymoon phase. If you truly love each other, such questions won’t arise.
Just like Qian Zhongshu and Yang Jiang, they wouldn’t emphasize their own importance; instead, they’d be willing to learn together, read together, and grow together.
Along the way, they shared the same hobbies, pace, and goals, and eventually achieved remarkable accomplishments.
This kind of divine love is what we should learn from and emulate.
Achieving yourself while achieving your partner is the true meaning of soulmates.
Tagore said, “If you love her, let your love surround her like sunshine, and give her freedom.”
The best love should be like that, warming each other’s hearts, being each other’s sunshine, not a stormy wind.
Why do some people feel tired and bored with their love? The main reason is that they’re not on the same frequency.
I want freedom, but you give me bondage; I want relaxation, but you give me pressure; I want trust, but you give me doubt; I want understanding, but you give me stress.
If two people have such differences, their love won’t last long. People with different hearts will eventually part ways, becoming just a brief episode in each other’s lives.
Tagore said, “Love is another name for understanding and care.”
The most suitable love is not mutual torture in the name of love, but accompanying each other, becoming each other’s sunshine.
Such love can provide spiritual companionship to each other.
Some people, once they meet, will be together for a lifetime; some hearts, once they start beating, will never stop.
Loving someone is easy, but loving them for a lifetime is not.
When you meet someone with these three signs, congratulations, you’ve found your soulmate.
With such love, all your efforts won’t be in vain, and your emotions won’t be misguided.
True love is not about giving everything, but about becoming a better person.
As Zhang Zhixin said, “Love is an indispensable accelerator that drives us forward, but it shouldn’t be an obstacle to our work and studies.”
Of course, to meet your soulmate, you must first become a better, more mature, and more radiant person.
If you bloom, the gentle breeze will come naturally.