Have you ever experienced a jerk woman stealing your man?
I have a friend who is going through this.
She has always been a good girl in the eyes of adults, obedient, and focused on her studies, never dating early.
She’s always been well-behaved, never rebellious, and even in college, her relationships were limited to holding hands.
Men are initially attracted to her purity, but after spending time with her, they find her dull.
Her love life seems to have always been difficult. Even now, she’s married and still has to worry about jerk women stealing her man.
She asked me in anguish, “Why do men like jerk women?”
I believe all the sisters who have experienced their husbands cheating deeply understand this.
Why are those wives who are devoted and thrifty, good at managing the household, always loyal to their husbands, the ones who get betrayed, while men like those bad women?
Is it really true that men don’t love women who aren’t bad?!
What a ridiculous logic.
Jerk women win men’s hearts for these reasons:
1. Jerk women know how to flirt
There’s no man who doesn’t like to flirt, that kind of ambiguous feeling can really tug at a person’s heartstrings.
The most wonderful moment in a relationship is when it’s uncertain. Extramarital affairs start from this kind of flirting.
What you can’t have is always the best, and jerk women understand men’s psychology.
Acting hesitant, then yielding, can make a man go crazy.
When a man is sufficiently enticed, then she gives him a little sweetness, but not everything. Of course, she has to make the man feel uncertain.
So, the jerk woman creates an illusion that many men admire her, making men treat her even better, or else they might lose her at any time.
2. Jerk women are good at pretending
Pretending to be innocent, cute, helpless, or weak, these are all the tricks of a jerk woman.
Why is it that the wife always loses in the competition with the mistress? It’s because the wife is too straightforward.
As they say, honesty is not always the best policy. The wife always tells the man the truth.
But the truth is not always pleasant to hear.
The mistress always speaks sweet words to the man.
I especially like a quote from Tuo Lei: “The unpleasant things are said by the wife, that’s called honest advice; the pleasant things are only said by the vixen, that’s called a tongue as sweet as honey.
The woman who lives with you, raises your children, has a temper and wants to spend her life with you, is the woman you should cherish. The woman who spends your money, sits in your car, and only wants to be with you for a short while, is the woman you should be on guard against.”
But men often can’t see the true face of the mistress, they confuse the priorities, hurt their wives, and love the jerk women.
In the end, they will end up alone and alienated.
3. Jerk women are seductive enough
Among those women who travel around, having met countless people, which one hasn’t mastered the art of seduction in bed, otherwise how could they conquer men?
Relying on talent and character?
I laughed…
This kind of statement is often made by a man after the mistress takes his place, just to save face, he will tell others, “She is really a good woman, I was completely attracted by her talent and ability.”
In simple terms, men like women with long legs and a big chest, but rational men only see these women as playthings, because they know they can’t keep their wandering hearts at home, and the green hat will fly everywhere if they bring them home.
Only foolish men will marry such women.
But these enchanting little vixens often stir men’s hearts.
It’s exasperating!
However, even though jerk women are very skilled, I believe that only one type of woman is truly a winner.
That is the “right amount of jerk”.
The so-called “right amount of jerk” means having boundaries, having standards.
They have their own values, don’t do anything inappropriate, and don’t go against their own conscience.
These women make men worry about them, and also earn their respect, because they can hold their bottom line, not flirt with just anyone.
They can be sweet and demure, good at housework, and playful.
Many women are influenced by traditional views and are too conservative in terms of intimacy, which is why they give jerk men a chance.
According to a survey, during sexual intercourse, many women may not be satisfied, but they still pretend to be satisfied, embarrassed to ask too much of their husbands.
It’s really a matter of mindset.
Bao Shishan once said something about sex: “If a woman is open-minded, there’s nothing a man can do.”
In reality, it’s true. If women all learn to be a bit of the “right amount of jerk”, then it will be the men who feel uncertain.
Love cannot withstand dullness, and marriage is the same.
It’s often not that the mistress is so great, but that you are too familiar.
Sisters, hurry up and be a “right amount of jerk” to spice up your marriage.